‘God Why Did You Make Me This Way?’

About 2 years ago I would never appear in a public setting without makeup. It was the most humiliating thing I could ever do to myself. I remember one very important work conference I forgot my makeup kit at home, in another city. Upon that realisation, I sat on the toilet seat in my hotel…

How To Be Your Man’s Emotional Support System with Ves Blake

Apparently, all men are hard and have no emotions… this has to be one of the most absurd assumptions I’ve ever heard. In fact, my opinion is men are more emotional than women, they just don’t display it as much. Many women would’ve received the abrupt “Good night” txt at 9pm when the guy is clearly showing as online…

The Pregnancy

“Step out in faith!” they said. As if taking that initial step automatically means everything else will fall into place, when in reality it’s quite the opposite. That initial step is only one in a series of other steps of faith. The whole journey will require you to keep stepping out in faith, over and…

How To Dance In The Rain

I’m back and really excited to be blogging again. The last few months have been really tough so I decided to take a little break from blogging and tend to other areas in my life that needed some TLC. Nevertheless,  this tough season seems to be lasting a lot longer than I anticipated so I’ve…

How To Step Into 2017 Baggage Free

Did you see that sprinter at the start line of the 100m Olympic race carrying all that baggage? No, neither did I because no athlete runs a race carrying baggage . As you are preparing to run your race in 2017 I thought I’d give you some inspiration to start well.I like to think of…

Hello MAGNIFY Magazine

This is going to sound very sad but you know how most people wait in anticipation for their favourite artist to drop a new album or apple to release a new iPhone? Well, I’m the other extreme! I’ve waited for this issue of MAGNIFY for what feels like donkey years. (lol dont judge me) I am…

Lessons Before and After The Ring With Lindiwe Ndhlukula.

*Drum roll please*My first ever guest post is none other than this beautiful couple, The Ndhlukulas. They are one of the few couples I know that epitomise what it is to be young, extra fly, loving Jesus and married so I thought I would ask Lindiwe especially, a few questions on what she’s learnt through…

Going Through A Rough Patch?

    Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. On the surface, to the naked eye we are all very well but underneath people are fighting world war me. It’s been a tough few weeks and  as you know I usually write posts that are upbeat and motivating but for the…

Playing Dumb To Be Found Attractive?

Driving from work with 2 of my male colleagues/friends we pulled up in front of a very stunning young Asian lady who was driving the latest Mercedes E-Class. Impressed by the state of the art car and the fact that it was driven by a very attractive young lady, my friends threw a cheeky comment…

In The Meantime….

I won’t say I have mastered how to enjoy this season but I can probably point you in the right direction. A lot of girls get it wrong by thinking once they get into a relationship then they’ll be happy. So most of this is spent feeling incomplete and lonely, as a result ending up…

Why You Won’t Find Me On The Dating Scene: My Oath

  I wrote the title of this post, then I thought to myself do I really want to talk about this stuff on here. Maybe because it’s one of those very personal things and I find it very complex subject for people understand. Let’s rewind to when I actually made this decision. As you may…

We Are Born To Be Brave Not Perfect

Losing her leg in a car accident could have destroyed her dream of becoming an Olympic athlete but despite her loss, she went on to become a triple gold medal paralympic athlete. After 20 years struggling as a refugee barely able to provide for his family, he then went on to build an international multimillion-pound company. Despite…